Pembagian Peran Pada Pasangan Suami Istri Jawa yang Memiliki Anak Bayi
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https://doi.org/10.30595/psychoidea.v23i1.20977Keywords:
families with infant children, Javanese, qualitative research, share roleAbstract
Sharing roles in the household is important to maintain family balance in achieving harmony. The aim of this research is to obtain an overview of the division of roles between husband and wife couples in families who have infant children (0-2 years). This research uses a qualitative approach, descriptive type. Participants in this research were three Javanese husband and wife couples who had an eldest child aged 0-2 years who lived in Solo Raya. The sampling technique used snowball sampling, and data analysis used QDA Miner Lite. The research results revealed that husband and wife couples do not make specific agreements, but the implementation of household tasks is flexible according to the couple's time. A husband and wife couple stated that they had implemented an egalitarian division of roles in the household, but in practice the wife still "followed" more in various decisions, and in the household the husband was the dominant decision maker.
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